Fatness deflects male attention?

Their love handles must not be used enough... I know this is a silly answer, but there is no simple answer to this very complex question that could include the males of our species... Insecurity has caused women and men to seek security in their lives by pursuing other drives to fill the void left in their lives where women and men both have failed... The modern conveniences of today's homes and businesses make the lives of women and men physically less demanding... Arrogance is a costume that women and men both use to disguise their ignorance and to protect the truths about themselves from others... I doubt women or men would gain weight to keep members of the opposite away from them... And, yes... In too many examples, men and women are psychologically or mentally challenged and this can lead to overweight... Child birth by some women also leads to women being overweight...